korang biasanya tengok apa dulu

Semua orang pun sedia maklum la kan yg FB ni memang bagus kalau nak cari kawan kawan lama. Aku nak tanyala... once korang add the new friend, ape benda pertama sekali yg akan korang buat???

Kalau aku,

1) tengok profile Info - busy body nk tau si polan kerja kat mana or belajar kat mana dulu. Pastu kalau ada disertakan blog link best juga sbb boleh blog hopping.

2) pastu tengok Albums : tengok camane rupa paras terkini si polan . Dah kurus ke, gemuk ke, dah make over ke. Seriously.. ramai kawan2 aku yg dulu sekadar ala-ala jer sekarang dah cun melecun macam Catherine Zeta-Jones. Tak tipuu. Biasanya aku akan jer tengok semua gambar sampai habis.

3) Pastu baru le drop comment: say hi, tanya khabar lebih kurang atau pun buat tak tau jer hehehhe. Kalau ada isu/gossip personal aku prefer hantar private message je.

Aku rasa semua org normal akan melakukan step step seperti di atas(..ke aku yg tak normal)

Kalau ikut logik akal

org dah kawen mesti letak at least 1 gambar dgn suami

dan

kalau org tu dah ada anak... aku berani kerat jari le, mesti berlambak lambak gambar anak dalam FB diorang.

Kalau tak de gambar itu bermakna org tu tak de laki or tak de anak. Itu adalah hukum alam yg simple.

So tak perlula nak bagi soalan2 yg annoying contohnya

Masih berdua ke?
Dah bertiga ke?
Bila ko nak ade anak ni?.. aku dah nak masuk anak yg ke 15 dah ni
ataupun... weh cepat cepat le beranak weh ko tu dah umur 30 dah..

WTF ... ha kan aku dah mencarut. Aku ni budak baik tawww. tak suka maki maki orang. Tapi aku adalah annoyed. Lagi lagi bila komen2 diatas disertai dgn smiley icon. Apa??? ingat kelakar ke.

The same thing happened to orang yg masih single. Pun struktur ayatnya sama
Dah berdua ke?
Single lagi ke?
Bila nak makan nasi minyak?

Aku pulak yg tolong rasa annoyed untuk orang2 single tersebut.

Well I guess people like that are simply not sensitive... because the question is sooo NOT genuine. Everyone can tell la. Tak payah le nak pura pura concern. Because concern people will definitely have a different approach. Don't they know at some level that type of question is not appropriate. You don't have to be a rocket scientist to understand the situation. It's just a common sense OK!!

Haa.. lepas ni mesti org ada orang cakap aku ni meroyan sebab tensen tak de anak... depressla.... desperate la... whatever

OK fine... aku memang la kalau bleh nak ada anak. Cuma belum tiba masanya and I have my very own reason for not having them. I made a decision and I learn to live with the consequences...but why can't other people being supportive. You don't have to pat my back. The smallest and easiest thing that you can do is just shut up your mouth (or in my case take off your hand from the keyboard) especially when you know NOTHING. ... and by that I rest my case.